A Family Guide to Supporting Veterans With Hearing Loss

Many veterans live with hearing loss without realising how much it is affecting them, or without feeling comfortable asking for help. Loved ones see the change first. A slightly louder television. Missed words. A look of frustration in a busy restaurant. Nods instead of replies in a group conversation.

These small signs add up. They do not diminish pride, strength or dignity. They simply show that service leaves lasting marks, some visible, others not.

Families play a powerful role in recognising these signs and gently encouraging support. This guide explains how hearing loss can show up, how to approach the conversation with care and how Justice4Heroes can help veterans understand their options.

Common signs to look for

Veterans sometimes adjust their behaviour subtly without noticing. Families may observe:

• Repeatedly asking others to repeat themselves
• Turning the television or radio up higher than before
• Avoiding social gatherings or noisy places
• Seeming withdrawn in group conversations
• Difficulty hearing children or soft voices
• Frustration or fatigue after conversations
• Tinnitus sounds such as ringing, buzzing or humming

These signs are not personal. They are protective behaviours that develop over time when hearing becomes harder.

Why veterans may not mention it

Veterans are trained to cope. To press on. To lead. Many would rather adapt quietly than risk appearing vulnerable. Some believe hearing loss is simply age. Others do not want to burden their family. A few worry they will not be taken seriously.

It helps to remember:

• They are not ignoring you
• They are not uncaring
• They may simply be managing the situation the only way they know how

Your support can help them take the first step.

How to approach the conversation

The aim is not to point out a problem. It is to offer encouragement and respect.

Try gentle starters such as:

"I have noticed you sometimes struggle to hear in busy places. Would it help if we looked at ways to make conversations easier?"

"I know you dealt with a lot of noise in service. If any of that has affected you, there is support now. We can look into it together if you like."

Avoid language that feels critical or patronising. Focus on improving comfort and connection, not correcting behaviour.

Reassurance goes a long way

Let them know:

• Hearing loss is common among veterans
• There is no shame in exploring support
• Seeking help is responsible, not weak
• They are not alone

Veterans value dignity. Meet them with respect, patience and calm reassurance.

How Justice4Heroes can help

We provide:

• Clear, straightforward information
• Guidance on recognising service-related hearing loss
• Support in exploring whether legal help may be available
• Warm, confidential conversations without pressure

We work alongside veterans and their families to make sure they feel informed, supported and in control.

No one is asked to commit to anything. The first step is simply learning and understanding.

A message to families

Your support matters more than you may realise. Veterans often look strong because they are strong. But strength does not mean facing everything alone.

A simple conversation can open the door to clarity, confidence and improved quality of life.

You stood beside them in service to the family. Standing beside them in service to themselves is just as important.

If you believe hearing loss may be affecting someone you love, you do not need to navigate it alone. Justice4Heroes is here to support veterans and families alike.

Every veteran deserves to hear their world clearly. Every family deserves connection without barriers. Together, we can make that possible.